I am a business man
and I have to make lots of trips for work. I would like some ideas of something
nice to do for my wife to make her feel special while I am gone. Got any ideas?
In a relationship where one or both of the individuals
travel or are gone often, it is hard to keep the intimacy going sometimes. There
are lots of little things you can do to make her smile and make her feel
special.
·Leave her little notes in places you know she
will find them.
·Book her a spa day.
·Burn her a CD with her favorite music that makes
her think of you.
·Send her flowers.
·Send her a card to her office.
·Spray your cologne on the bed/pillow.
·Exchange teddy bears/stuffed animals.
·Call her when she is not expecting it.
It is very sweet of you to want to do things for her to
remind her that you love her. You and your wife must have a very special bond
and you are very lucky. Good luck on the business trips!
My wife and I have been together for a few years and have
only been married for two, and sometimes she can't get an orgasm during sex? Am
I doing something wrong? It has gotten so bad that she masturbates in front of
me before we have sex just so she makes sure she is "taken care of". Help me
please.
Women
are inherently very complicated creatures. For most women, the sun, moon, and
stars have to all be aligned to have an orgasm during sex, and there are a lot
of factors involved in that. First of all, women are very emotional creatures.
If they have had a bad day at work, or if they are stressed, or just not in the
mood, the chances of you giving her an orgasm is not very good. Women need to
be relaxed and happy. Try having her take a nice warm shower or bath first to
relax her, and then maybe rub some lotion or oil all over her to keep her
relaxed and start getting her in the mood.
Another
mistake that men make is the lack of, or not enough foreplay. Never go right
for the goods, slow down and take the time to get her all hot and bothered. If
you take your time and go slowly, she will be far more lubricated and
sensitive. Take an extra minute or ten and kiss all those places that may not
get enough attention. Another thing that you can try is maybe a little oral sex
first, kissing and licking in the right places makes all of the difference.
Something
else that many men don't know is that most women do not orgasm by penetration
alone, and they feel like they are doing something wrong. All women are built
differently and that doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with them or you.
It simply means that they need more than one kind of stimulation to be able to
orgasm. Try giving her clitoral stimulation as well as penetration or maybe use
a small vibrator that can be worn or put on your finger. Another thing people
can try is changing the positions that you are in during sex. Typically, people
attribute "missionary" or man-on-top position as the typical one for sex. That
position does not give the woman the most pleasure because the penis does not
touch the G-spot or clitoris as much. Try changing positions to woman on top
maybe or any other position that lends her the most exposure and pleasure.
One
thing that I stress in all of my articles is communication. Talk to her, ask
her what she wants and how she wants it. You obviously want to please her and
give her an orgasm as much as you want one. As with everything else,
relationship or sex related, communication is the key. If you can have sex, you
can talk about it. I hope this helped a bit, and good luck!
