My husband and I are trying to spice up our marriage and are
looking for new places to be intimate, but are scared of being caught. Do
you have any suggestions??
I think most people have some sort of secret
fantasy of having sex in the middle of a field of flowers, or the beach, or
maybe in the forest by the campfire. The fact of the matter is that the idea of
possibly being caught can actually make it more stimulating and fun. If you are
too scared of getting caught, start out slow. Have sex somewhere in your house
or maybe if you want to have sex outside, your own back yard.
If you want to break up the monotony of
having sex in the bedroom on the bed, spice it up. Try being spontaneous and
making out on the couch, or having sex on the kitchen table, or maybe in your
pool outside. Next time there is one of those passionate suggestive kisses from
your partner, instead of leading him into the bedroom, try the couch or the
nearest flat surface. As teenagers we were willing to "make out" or "hook up"
in all sorts of places, even the back seat. Find that spirit and spontaneity
inside you and just try it. There are several fun games you can try as well
that have you having sex or doing intimate sexual acts in several rooms in your
house.
The idea of getting caught during sex makes it just that much more alluring. You might be thinking, I am a parent or a grown woman I don't need to be having sex in a public place. Remember that underneath all of that, you are still a woman and a sexual being; take hold of that and try something new. You never know what you might like until you try it... It could be the best sex of your life.

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