My friend's girlfriend is setting me up on a blind date next
weekend. I haven't been on a date in many years. What kind of body
language should I look for to know she's interested in me, and how important is
my confidence in the possibility for sex?
First of all, congratulations on getting back
into the dating scene, it's a scary world out there and hard to take that first
step. Blind dates are a hard way to get back into things, as you haven't known
the person before to gauge their actions. Do yourself a favor and do not go to
the date expecting to get sex. You are going to psyche yourself out and be the
farthest thing from confident. If she is interested in you she will do little things
like smile at you a lot, maybe touch your arm or your hand, wink and laugh at
your bad jokes, etc.
A lot of men are scared of the good night
kiss too, don't be. If you have never seen Hitch, watch it. Will Smith has some
very smart things to say about women and the good night kiss. All women are
different, and we are extremely unpredictable creatures. It's intimidating, but
be sure of yourself and know that you are a guy worth knowing. Just try to relax,
be yourself, and have fun. It's only the first date, think about getting to know
the woman before you start freaking out about what to do about sex. If it does
get to that point though, confidence is very important. Most women like a man
to be confident and sure of himself, just remember, if she is willing to have
sex with you, then she likes you. Don't psyche yourself out about this date,
just be yourself and have fun. Good luck!
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